How Can I Best Help My Spouse Recover from Pornography Use?

As a spouse, we want to do everything in our power to help our spouses recover from pornography use. We may try to control our spouses’ behavior, or we may find ourselves in the role of the enforcer. However, this is not a healthy role for us to take. Our spouse is the only person who can change his or her behavior. We can’t carry the weight of someone’s agency. We can encourage and support, but we can’t control our spouse’s behavior. It’s important for spouse to take care of their own recovery and then to heal the marriage together.


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